Since Valentine's Day falls on a Monday this year, I'm going to assume that the majority of people the world-over will most likely be celebrating it at some point this weekend; therefore, I'd like to take this opportunity to wish each and every one of my readers, as well as all my friends and everyone else out there a very very Happy Valentine's Day right now today. I hope everyone has a very special, memorable and romantic Valentine's Day this year, no matter who you are or what you have planned, I hope it's beautiful. As for those of you out there who like myself may be single and currently not dating anyone, I dont want you to feel down about this day because this day is about love (every day, not just Valentine's Day, should be about that, dontcha think?) and as long as you can love yourself and then share that love with others, you're doing just fine. Remember, there isn't anyone else out there quite like you, you are special and the fact that you exist is reason enough for the world to celebrate. Always remember that. And keep your chin up, that special someone is right around the corner, you just wait-n-see.
I think every one of us has had both good and not-so-good Valentine's Days and hey, that can be expected, it's part of life. Then there are those who dont give a whiff about Valentine's Day and that's fine too, but I've always liked this day because personally, I think it's just a cute little romantic holiday of sorts, and who doesnt like a good dose of romance here-n-there? I know I do. Be that as it may, yes, it can be a depressing day for some people BUT only if you let it. I have enough to deal with in my life as it is so I choose to NOT let it. For me, it's an extra day to let those who have touched my life know how much I truly appreciate and love them for who they are and for those times when the blues hit, I think back on all the good memories I've been fortunate to have thus far in my life. I think when it comes to this day it has special meaning for all of us, regardless of the reasoning. My grandparents were married on February 14th during World War II. They made a promise to always love each other atta time when the world itself was totally topsy-turvey and I'm so thankful they did because naturally I wouldnt be here today if it werent for them, so no matter what happens in my own life, that single reason alone will always be enough for me to treasure that day.
Of course, one of my most memorable Valentine's Days was Valentine's Day, 1989. Although the entire evening was very special to me what I remember most about it was the living room aglow with several candles burning brightly and the two of us, Jack and I, dancing to that one song by Heatwave, "Always & Forever." God, how he loved that song, and I did too. I remember how firmly he held onto me that night we danced and the way his eyes looked into mine, the light of the candles flickering in their reflection - I mean, you knew they were there, you could see their flames dancing outside the corners of his eyes but a little voice inside me whispered "Dont turn away from those eyes, dont you dare miss one single moment of this, not now, this moment may never happen again." I'm glad I listened to my instincts that night for I've never regretted it. Not to sound melodramatic but if the world were to end in the next few moments, I sincerely believe that the images of that night would replay themselves before my eyes would close for the very last time. Wow, they were right, some memories really do last for a lifetime, maybe even for forever.
When it comes to love and romance I myself have always said to others "Didja ever notice that those with the advice or suggestions are usually always the ones who are single at the time?" It's true, not just with others but hey, I guess with myself too. With our modern world of technology and with people's imaginations running rampant in this day-n-age, I highly doubt that anyone would need advice on what to do (or what not to do in some cases) for their special someone's on Valentine's Day; but, IF, you've run outta ideas, here's one that I heard about years ago and from what I've gathered from the person who told me about it, as well as others who have given it a try, it has worked like a charm every single time. Actually, I'm kinda chuckling writing about it because I cant imagine myself ever doing it but then again, you never know! So if you've run outta ideas on what to do and you're totally stumped, here's something that just might work for you and your special someone....
Depending on how well you know the other person, go out and buy the following: some type of large ceramic bowl, it could be a pasta bowl, something like a large mixing bowl, whatever you think would be visually appealing to the other person; a matching hand-towel and facecloth; and, whatever scented liquid bathsoap and/or lotion that you think the other person would like. Doesnt matter where you buy any of the items, it could be anywhere from your local grocery store to Bed-Bath-n-Beyond, whatever you can reasonably afford is what you should go with. Once you have all the items and you know what the plans are for that evening, here's whatcha do. At some point in the evening tell the other person you have something that you would like to do especially for them. At this point, I think you already know what it is but for the sake of clarity, here's whatcha do: you fill the ceramic bowl up with warm water, throw the towels on your arm and you proceed to where the other person is sitting; gently remove their socks and shoes (if you havent already!); and, you proceed to bath their feet ever so gently with the washcloth and your hands, followed by patting their tootsies gently dry with the handtowel and then afterwards massaging the lotion ever so gently into their feet. By the time you are finished doing this, if not before all the steps are taken, there is a very high probability rate that you will find yourself experiencing an extremely sensual, erotic experience with your special someone.
If you do decide to give this suggestion a try, you may want to have some lit candles in the room and either some Barry White or Luther Vandross playing softly in the background. I dont drink but perhaps some nicely chilled champagne or Asti Spumante and maybe some milk-chocolate covered strawberries may be in order too. Every detail to presentation should be addressed if you want to make a lasting, memorable impression on your special someone. You can always play it by ear but remember, everyone needs a bit of Spice in their lives (sorry, I couldnt resist!).
Whatever you do for Valentine's Day this year, make it special, make it memorable and as always, if you're gonna fool around, fool around safely and responsibly. After all, isnt respecting yourself and showing the other person how much you respect them the first step in forming (as well as preserving) a meaningful relationship in the first place? Have a very Happy Valentine's Day 2011 everyone and as always, thank you so much for reading.
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